Saturday, April 26, 2014

Florida Keys

One of our favorite places to visit. We have stayed at both Bahia Honda and  Pennekamp State Parks. Well, we actually did stay over night at Bahia Honda but, after our experience that first time, when we arrived at Pennekamp and saw we'd have the same bug problem we had had at Bahia Honda, we packed up and left shortly after we arrived and set up! I will probably never sleep on the Keys again. On our first trip our vehicles became infested with the "no-see-ums" and we were getting eaten alive. DEET does nothing to keep them from biting. We had to fog them out once we left the Keys. However, we do still love to visit. We just sleep in the Everglades or at Midway Campground near the Everglades where we won't have to deal with them and make day trips onto the Keys. Peace River is the closest Thousand Trails campground, although there is one on the Keys, as well. We've just never been to it.
At Bahia Honda, we did the state park version of the junior ranger booklet (which I had to purchase and it comes with the badges). We also did some snorkeling on the coral reefs there on the beach. The boys got to see some neat fish.
We splurged and ate at Whale Harbor Inn seafood buffet and challenged ourselves to try at least one food item we've never had before. A bit pricey (for us, anyway) but delicious. We also drove to Key West, saw some entertainers and learned about Fort Jefferson but we didn't go to visit it, as you have to plan ahead and take a ferry out to it so we just learned about it and that was fine with us. We left Key West as it got dark, as the night-time entertainment is not family-friendly.
We took a tour at the Turtle Hospital on Marathon Key. It did cost money to get in but we found a coupon in a booklet we got from the Keys visitor center. We got a "behind the scenes" look at the operations there and met some of the patients. It was very educational.



We took a glass bottom boat tour from Pennekamp. That was very educational and fun. Again, a bit pricey (for us) but not as expensive as I would've expected.

                     

If I take the wings of the morning and dwell in the uttermost parts of the sea, even there your hand shall lead me, and your right hand shall hold me. Psalm 139:9-10
How precious to me are your thoughts, O God! How vast is the sum of them! If I would count them, they are more than the sand. I awake, and I am still with you. Psalm 139:17-18

Thursday, April 17, 2014

Fun in Everglades National Park, FL

We love to visit the Everglades each year. There's always something to do there. We introduced our two newest children to the Everglades this year. We took some self-guided tours, attended the new ranger class about the invasive python species (yikes!), and completed the Junior ranger booklet, including the scavenger hunt bingo board. We earned badges from all 3 National Parks: Everglades, Big Cypress, and Biscayne. We didn't get to do the wilderness tour walking through the water and grass but I guess that's something to look forward to next year since all ranger-led tours end by April 1.




Interesting homeschooling tidbit of the day: the Anhinga has oil on it's feathers so it can dive for birds, stay down quite awhile, come up again and be completely dry.


We also visited the Nike Missile Site in the Everglades for a bit of history.

 


All things were made through him, and without him was not any thing that was made. John 1:3
God gives us richly all things to enjoy. 1 Timothy 6:17

Sunday, March 23, 2014

Hear + Obey = Blessings

My family has been tired ... and cranky ... I did not set my alarm for church today. (We slept in and missed church last week, too.) We do read the bible daily as a family, we read as individuals, and we attend bible studies as often as possible, so missing church every so often doesn't cause me any anxiety and sometimes we attend church more than once/week so I figure that makes up for the missed weeks, right? Hmmm.
Anyway, God woke me at precisely the right time for all of us to casually get ready for church (without rushing or yelling a lot, or killing each other in the process, which is how it is when *I* am in charge of waking the family). The sermon was awesome and inspiring. I love studying God thru Moses. He is a person I can truly identify with and relate to in my own life's struggles.
After church, we usually just get our donut and coffee and leave. We know no one at this church, like I said, and it hasn't been one of the most outgoing churches we've been to. No one has approached us to welcome us, get to know us, or connect with us in any way, which was always what pulled us into other churches, although an attendee here and there have told us they were glad to see us at the church from time to time when we are told to greet our neighbors. It's pretty hard not to notice the big white lady with the 8 hispanic kids in tow.
Today after service I was told to sit. I obeyed. I ate my donut and drank my coffee and ... waited. For what, I had no idea. I waited, feeling silly, questioning what God had in store for me and *almost* complaining (a habit I'm trying to break away from) about how awkward I felt just sitting in the entranceway of a church we've visited only a few times surrounded by people we don't know (still a bit insecure despite the outpouring of God's love on me in my life).
The kids, each in turn, asked, "What are we doing?" "Are we leaving?" "Why are you just sitting there?" "Aren't we going to McDonald's to eat/drink and do Xtramath online?" I didn't know how to answer. I didn't know why I was just sitting but, being the leader in the family, I knew I had to give them something. "I'm sitting. Just chillin'." Lol. That was the best I could come up with. My children are great. They accepted that answer at face value and ... waited. Then, it began.
A gentleman stopped to chat, we did introductions. He said our family caught his eye. (ok, that, in and of itself is not a surprise.) We chatted. He was very impressed by my family's faith in God and their desire to minister. He got that in the first 2.5 seconds of speaking to us. He led us around, introducing us to other pastors in the church, his family, etc. Each reader in my family (I have 2 nonreaders) was able to tell this man what their favorite book of the bible is, why, and what they've learned from that book in their own life. We met his family and they brought us to the rear of the church, where church goers are able to jump for free for a half hour after services are over. The kids had a blast. The man also honed in on Daniel's love of basketball and made note to hook him up with a team where he could participate. The man also recommended us to the church's spiritual gifts class so we could each learn more about what our spiritual gifts are and how we can use them to teach others about Jesus. Then, he said it was a blessing to him to meet our family and he had to go. What a blessing to this family, as well. I know at least some of my children were blessed by the encounter. One son, who always hates his hair & wants to change it, was given a note by a random girl walking by us that had a picture of him & the note said, "Hi, I'm Autumn you have nice hair." Maybe now the boy will believe me when I say he has great hair??? If I hadn't sat and waited, we wouldn't have had free fun jumping time, we wouldn't know about the basketball team or the spiritual gifts class, we wouldn't have gotten confirmation of our choices and lifestyle, and we wouldn't have met these brothers in Christ.
I am thankful my God is alive and He chose me, called me, and is with me always. I am thankful that He loved me enough to sacrifice His Son, Jesus, to take the wrath for my sins. I am thankful Jesus willingly gave His life so that I can be with God forever. I am thankful He speaks to me daily. May I become the person He always meant for me to be and spread the Good News joyfully until He calls me home.

Therefore we must pay much closer attention to what we have heard, lest we drift away from it. Hebrews 2:1
Does he who supplies the Spirit to you and works miracles among you do so by works of the law, or by hearing with faith- Galatians 3:5
Let me hear what God the Lord will speak, for he will speak peace to his people, to his saints; but let them not turn back to folly. Psalm 85:8
It is the Spirit who gives life; the flesh is no help at all. The words that I have spoken to you are spirit and life. John 6:63
For all who are led by the Spirit of God are sons of God. Romans 8:14
The Spirit himself bears witness with our spirit that we are children of God,... Romans 8:16
But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus his Son cleanses us from all sin. 1 John 1:7
Whoever has my commandments and keeps them, he it is who loves me. And he who loves me will be loved by my Father, and I will love him and manifest myself to him.” John 14:21

Saturday, March 1, 2014

Slow and Steady Wins the Race

We have been on the road for 1 month as of yesterday. If I had to describe it in one word, it would be ... stressful. The entire 18 hour drive from NJ to FL was ... stressful. Driving the motorhome wasn't very stressful. I've done that many times. Towing the minivan? Now THAT was stressful. The van slipped off the dolly within a mile on the road. We drove through ice, snow, and rain (my favorites ... not). I paid 2 tow truck drivers $20 each to check my dolly: once after the van slipped off and once in VA when I had to unhook the dolly in order to get air in the RV tires as the garage couldn't accommodate both vehicles together in the parking lot. Once we ran out of gas and barely made it coasting into a Flying J. The entire drive down I kept repeating to myself, "Slow and steady wins the race." We left NJ with just barely enough time to get to FL for the homeschool field trip to Legoland. We didn't make it anyway. We overslept. =/
We have been sorting, organizing & cleaning out the junk we tossed into the RV before we left NJ. I went to Lowes, Home Depot & Ikea and have been adding storage space since we arrived in FL. Remodeling the RV is hard when you're actually living in it. Even though most of the remodelling was done before we left, I'm constantly finding more places to add storage space. Now that I have, the kids are whining and complaining less. We're settling in. We're starting to have a good time ... I think. We've been to the FTF rally, state parks and playgrounds, and swimming. We've attended church services, Bible studies, and youth groups near both TTO and Peace River. TTO also has a service in the family center at TTO at 8am, a bible study Monday nights, and a women's bible study Tuesday afternoons. We also really like FCCLive in Clermont. Sometimes pastors make us cry but, this Sunday, the PASTOR even cried. Very moving.
Homeschooling looks a bit different now. I don't carry my own Internet yet so we rely on TT Internet at the family center. It was down in Orlando for several days so, instead of doing Xtramath, K12reader, and Easy Peasy, they read chapter books, wrote summaries of a chapter each day, and the bigger boys used their Life of Fred math books while the littles worked on counting money and telling time. Some days we roadschool, finding interesting state parks, monuments, and museums to visit. One challenge has been that my kids complain about other kids who are unschoolers and "never have to learn anything, they just play all day." Hmmm, well, we unschooled for a year and we liked it; however, mine are mostly special needs, they don't pick things up easily, they've always lacked basics due to moving around in foster care, and I just feel better giving them some structured learning targeting their weak areas while building on their strengths. I thought I'd cave in to their "let's play all day, too" desires many times but I prayed about it and felt that wasn't enough, altho I try not to put so much pressure on them and myself about schooling.
Two of my boys are loving every minute of this life. The rest of us? Well, we've all had (many) days where we felt like quitting. Leaving the road. Going "home" to the s&b house while we still have it but, the more I accommodate their storage and space needs, and the more we do fun stuff and involve ourselves in ... FTF, community ... life, the less they whine, complain, and bicker. The other day I commented on one boy's negative attitude and my other boy said, "Mom, living on the road is stressful. You know it is. Just the other day, you wanted to quit." Yup. I did. Over what? I don't even remember. As my kids played the other day, I heard one saying to the other, "Slow and steady wins the race." I guess the key is to slow down and be more flexible. My type A, controlling personality finds that difficult to do but I'm learning to trust God and seek His will always.

silly kids, building relationships with other FTF teens


Don't look out only for your own interests, but take an interest in others, too. Philippians 2:4
Look to the LORD and his strength; seek his face always. 1 Chronicles 16:11
The LORD is my strength and my song; he has become my salvation. He is my God, and I will praise him, my father's God, and I will exalt him. Exodus 15:2
So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. Isaiah 41:10
This is what the LORD says: "Cursed is the one who trusts in man, who depends on flesh for his strength and whose heart turns away from the LORD. Jeremiah 17:5
Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer. Romans 12:12
Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding;  in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight. Proverbs 3:5-6
If you remain in me and my words remain in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be given you. John 15:7



Sunday, February 16, 2014

Church on the Road, Our First Month

We are almost 3 weeks in from our launch. We were tired, cranky, & biting each other's heads off. We didn't give ourselves enough time to adjust before the FTF rally began so, even tho I referred a fellow single mom with a teen who wants to leave the road to my sons, who I thought were on board with me 100% ... by the time they finished talking with said teenager wanting to leave the road, my boys were argumentative, complaining whiners who wanted to leave the road & wanted to be abandoned at the campground to become homeless wanderers in a strange town in a strange state with absolutely no plan, or at least be dropped off at the s&b house back in Jersey. Yeah, ok ... My one boy dislikes rallies immensely anyway, even on a good day. People want to talk to him. Apparently, that's annoying. He takes 'shy introvert' to all new levels. I had to grade him in socialization just to get him to talk to people. lol. Since we just threw last minute stuff into the van & RV, we've been sorting, purging & organizing the RV (and by 'we' I mean 'I). I also made a trip to IKEA (yay, there's one in Tampa!) & Walmart for storage solutions. It's helping us feel more comfortable.

2014 FTF rally kids

At any rate, we're at our second campground. At present, we are enjoying the NBA all-star game in the Peace River lodge. My boy is in heaven on earth. We haven't done much traditional homeschooling, what with lack of reliable Internet, the inability for my teens to educate themselves at the lodge without a parent present, & noisy elderly people in the lodge: the only place we get reliable Internet. However, we did get a few days' worth of easy peasy homeschooling in and we've been reading books together in the RV. We are reading thru Gulliver's Travels, since the older kids said they didn't understand the language of it, on my free Gulliver's Travels audio book phone app. I upgraded my phone to an Android for Christmas & JUST taught myself how to use it recently. I must admit, as a technological illiterate, I LOVE it. We also read the bible each day, working thru a one-year plan of reading it chronologically. Actually, my phone app also reads that to us, too. lol. For writing, I have the kids write summaries of church sermons we hear & how the sermon applies to their life personally. They also write summaries of what they learn as we road school and write questions they have about it, too. Sometimes they research those questions online later, or we just google things on my phone while we are learning. Did I mention I love my phone?

baby gator & baby gator (& bird/turtle/fish/,,) watching

We spent a day in the Everglades taking ranger-led tours & doing junior ranger booklet activities. I'd love to go back and take the river of grass 'strenuous' ranger-led hike and visit the shark exhibit. You definitely need to plan several days in the Everglades. We just made a day trip from Peace River but hope to go back once my Thousand Trails membership upgrade kicks in and gives me more parks to stay in, which will include a stay in the Keys, as my newest adopted children have never been there.

Nike missile site & Cold War history ... yes, she ALWAYS looks that happy lol

 
Interesting biology tidbit for the day: unlike other diving birds, the Anhinga doesn't have oils to prevent him from getting wet so, when he dives for fish, he comes up WET. He must fan his feathers to dry & get warm.


We found a church we like near Peace River: First Baptist Church of Bowling Green. God usually chooses good church communities for us to connect with wherever we are. The music isn't what we're used to but we all participated in bible study and services and we warmly welcomed, included, and invited back ... and we did, and will, go back. There's a dinner this Wed. with bible studies for all ages. We had also joined bible studies (one for families, one for women) at Thousand Trails Orlando and met some great people.
There were other guests at the church this Sunday. We were all invited to give a testimony of how God is working in our lives and what opportunities we had for sharing the gospel and a man stood up to share that he is hiking the U.S. spreading the gospel, totally relying on God to provide for his needs as he brings nothing with him but a backpack and a bag everywhere he goes. We talked with him for quite some time after the service. He is an artist (painter/carver) & is drafting a book about how God is working on his journey. He is an interesting man and we will keep him in our prayers forever more.

Nomad Mark

Therefore, we are ambassadors for Christ, God making his appeal through us. We implore you on behalf of Christ, be reconciled to God. 2 Corinthians 5:20

Sunday, February 2, 2014

Finally Launched!

On January 28, 2014, we launched in our RV from NJ to FL. We left 2 weeks later than originally planned, and we still weren't quite ready, but we did it. Are you ever really ready?
We RV'd part-time for 3+ years. We started preparing for this launch for 2 years. We didn't finish cleaning out the sticks & bricks house but, since it didn't sell and my roommates are still living there, I didn't feel quite so pressured to get EVERYTHING out and we can pick up more things we want when we get back to that area.
I gutted the entire RV to rebuild it to accommodate all 9 of us. That wasn't quite finished either but I took the wood, tools, trim, sewing machine, etc. so I can finish it as we go. It's quite functional but I have more storage spaces to add and finishing touches.
We didn't sort and pack all the things we wanted to bring. At the last minute, we just started putting things in the RV to be sorted and stored as we go. It was REALLY crowded and packed when we left but we already sorted and stored a few things and threw out 2 bags of 'items to be trashed.'
Apparently, we left just before a winter storm hit all along the east coast but, since we had reservations for the LEGOLAND homeschool trip (which we missed because I overslept), for Suwannee music camp, and the FTF rally, we HAD to leave when we did.
This is the first time I towed my van on a dolly with the RV. How stressful! Within a mile from the house, the van slipped off the dolly so I had to pull over at a gas station and reload it. One tire harness was damaged so I had to search for another - not to be found. I had to buy a different type but some nice guy, a tow truck driver, came to help me load the van back up. It was slow driving the first day because I stopped every 45 mins or so to check the van/dolly. I held the steering wheel so tight the entire drive. My arms and hands are still asleep.
We slept the first night in VA. I stopped driving when it started to snow pretty good - it was after midnight and we were tired. I feared the snow would slow us down but the highways were fine so we headed out. Both Carolinas were pretty icy off the highway and everything (gas stations, convenience stores, fast food restaurants, Walmarts, etc) were all closed. I couldn't find anyplace to buy food so we had pbnj for the 5th meal straight so far. We slept the second night in SC. The Walmart was open in the morning so we ate cereal and started our final 10 hours of driving. We saw 2 tractor trailer trucks completely destroyed on the side and median of the highway. =[



Dolphin at Florida Welcome Center

My older children take turns riding shotgun and my chatty boy was up front with me on the final day of driving. Because I was engaged in conversation, and because my brain no longer works as efficiently as it used to, I forgot to pull off to get gas. Once I realized I was pretty darn low on gas, I pulled off at the very next exit. It was an uphill ramp. I ran out of gas at the top. Then, I turned right, hoping a gas station would be close by. I coasted down the highway shoulder and into the Flying J (also on the right!) where my RV stopped coasting about 10 yards from the gas pump!

Stopped this close!
 

I, and by "I" I mean Richard) had to get the gas can out of the closet (no easy task with all the stuff we shoved in there before we left) so I could walk to the pump to get gas to put into the RV so we could drive the rest of the way to the pump.

 


We made it to our campground in Orlando 15 mins before it closed so we were able to get to a campsite, where the RV started hissing at me and overheated. I filled the coolant tank and checked all fluids then drove it around the loop. So far, so good. Drove the van around. It wobbles. Maybe falling off the dolly knocked the alignment out? Gotta get them both checked before we head out again to our next destination.
We arrived Thu. night and went to bed at 3am, thus the reason I missed the alarm for LEGOLAND at 8am, but we did take the van and the tent 3 hours north to the kids' music camp. We had a blast. I write this from Orlando as we watch the Super Bowl, looking forward to more fun, relaxing days..
Despite the stressful launch, I'm already feeling better about our choices.
So many things went wrong, or could've gone very wrong. God definitely had a hedge of protection around us.
But let all who take refuge in you be glad; let them ever sing for joy. Spread your protection over them, that those who love your name may rejoice in you. Psalm 5:11

Wednesday, January 22, 2014

Homeschooling in the Sticks and Bricks

As we prepare to launch in our RV, I'm thinking back on the past 2 years of homeschooling. I explain why here. My oldest three at home have even started college. Our first year, we strictly roadschooled and unschooled. We roadschooled in every eastern state from NJ to FL, later adding the states up through MA, stopping at state welcome centers, national parks, museums, and anything we see of interest.
When we unschooled, my only requirement was that the kids read something, anything (within reason and at their reading level), learn something, anything, and tell me about it. They loved this and my one son, who barely passed each year in public school and who rarely, if ever, passed a standardized test, learned enough in that one year to pass every section of the GED test except for math (ok, we read nothing math-related) and he taught himself how to fix computers, play keyboard, and record music, things he NEVER would've learned in public school. The reason for the unschooling was twofold: first, I was busy gutting and rebuilding several rooms in the sticks and bricks house to prepare it for sale and, second, to 'detox' the kids from public school learning. However, I do still have some nonreaders in the house and I learned they were avoiding key subjects, like math, so I felt the need to add some organized, structured learning.
This year, I tried many approaches and curriculums, experimenting with things to see how they fit our needs. I found many free online websites to print out worksheets from or that have online learning activities, which we use sometimes. I did buy the Life of Fred math series. They loved the elementary books, couldn't wait to do math each day, and couldn't put it down once they did start it. I ended up using math as a rewaard for finishing other work because I found, once they started their math, they didn't get to anything else! My only complaint is that the correct answers aren't really hidden and, even though I covered up the answers, it is easy for them to 'cheat' and I had to watch them more closely. My older boys are now into the high school books, which apparently aren't as interesting or fun and they are harder. My boys struggle with these but I think it's because of their language barriers and not necessarily the math itself and, for obvious reasons, my nonreaders can't use them yet at all until they learn to read well.
I discovered Easy Peasy Free All In One Homeschool and never looked back. At first, I was so frustrated. What should have been one day's worth of work took my cherubs a week or more to do but after a few weeks of trial and error, they finally 'got it' for the most part. They are not good at all at following instructions, so easy peasy wasn't that easy but I still love it as it provides most of what I wanted for us educationally. These days, our homeschooling looks like this:

1. practice math facts on Xtramath.com
2. read a story, answer the questions, & write a 1-paragraph summary from K12 Reader
3. do the day & year work on easy peasy
4. Watch CNN Student News and write summaries and questions

Sounds easy? I think so but some days it takes them all day because they are so distracted, off-task, unmotivated or what-have-you. My 2 nonreaders do the first grade learning with their 2 similar-leveled siblings, who read everything to them, and they also do the Getting Ready phonics levels with me. My 4 oldest started with 5th grade then, once they got the hang of it I added 6th grade so my older 4 actually do 3 sections each day: 5th grade, 6th grade, and year 1. I did this so they could make up for any previously missed learning. I learned that the topics they all cover are the same each day. For example, they all start with reading, altho they read different stories/books, then do math, which they do at their own individual levels mostly from Khan Academy but not exclusively, then some thinking or logic and writing. In the year work, they start with a bible story, they all read the same book or chapter but the older ones read longer sections and have more in-depth questions. Then they do history, again, all the same topic (for example, ancient Rome) just with different resources and quizzes, etc. They finish the day with science or PE, again, the same for all elementary levels just with more details for the older grades. It makes it so easy for me to discuss topics with them or for them to discuss things amongst themselves.
I will miss using Easy Peasy once we launch full-time, which is now delayed because the tow dolly just arrived and is still sitting in the crate outside ... in the freezing cold, in the newly fallen snow, behind the not-quite-completely rebuilt RV. ugh. Looking forward to launching within the next week, though. We MUST if we are to make Florida before homeschool day at Legoland, FL and music camp at Spirit of Suwanee!

Often, we do our learning elsewhere, even at the sticks and bricks house:


building Home Depot craft

taking computer apart


Spirit of Suwanee Music Camp

exploring nature center ... or, how to put your shirt on correctly!

This is how it looks in the house:
Bigs HSing in the dining room
Littles HSing in the living room
PE - dancing
PE - crab walk

counting by 10s song on youtube