Wednesday, January 22, 2014

Homeschooling in the Sticks and Bricks

As we prepare to launch in our RV, I'm thinking back on the past 2 years of homeschooling. I explain why here. My oldest three at home have even started college. Our first year, we strictly roadschooled and unschooled. We roadschooled in every eastern state from NJ to FL, later adding the states up through MA, stopping at state welcome centers, national parks, museums, and anything we see of interest.
When we unschooled, my only requirement was that the kids read something, anything (within reason and at their reading level), learn something, anything, and tell me about it. They loved this and my one son, who barely passed each year in public school and who rarely, if ever, passed a standardized test, learned enough in that one year to pass every section of the GED test except for math (ok, we read nothing math-related) and he taught himself how to fix computers, play keyboard, and record music, things he NEVER would've learned in public school. The reason for the unschooling was twofold: first, I was busy gutting and rebuilding several rooms in the sticks and bricks house to prepare it for sale and, second, to 'detox' the kids from public school learning. However, I do still have some nonreaders in the house and I learned they were avoiding key subjects, like math, so I felt the need to add some organized, structured learning.
This year, I tried many approaches and curriculums, experimenting with things to see how they fit our needs. I found many free online websites to print out worksheets from or that have online learning activities, which we use sometimes. I did buy the Life of Fred math series. They loved the elementary books, couldn't wait to do math each day, and couldn't put it down once they did start it. I ended up using math as a rewaard for finishing other work because I found, once they started their math, they didn't get to anything else! My only complaint is that the correct answers aren't really hidden and, even though I covered up the answers, it is easy for them to 'cheat' and I had to watch them more closely. My older boys are now into the high school books, which apparently aren't as interesting or fun and they are harder. My boys struggle with these but I think it's because of their language barriers and not necessarily the math itself and, for obvious reasons, my nonreaders can't use them yet at all until they learn to read well.
I discovered Easy Peasy Free All In One Homeschool and never looked back. At first, I was so frustrated. What should have been one day's worth of work took my cherubs a week or more to do but after a few weeks of trial and error, they finally 'got it' for the most part. They are not good at all at following instructions, so easy peasy wasn't that easy but I still love it as it provides most of what I wanted for us educationally. These days, our homeschooling looks like this:

1. practice math facts on Xtramath.com
2. read a story, answer the questions, & write a 1-paragraph summary from K12 Reader
3. do the day & year work on easy peasy
4. Watch CNN Student News and write summaries and questions

Sounds easy? I think so but some days it takes them all day because they are so distracted, off-task, unmotivated or what-have-you. My 2 nonreaders do the first grade learning with their 2 similar-leveled siblings, who read everything to them, and they also do the Getting Ready phonics levels with me. My 4 oldest started with 5th grade then, once they got the hang of it I added 6th grade so my older 4 actually do 3 sections each day: 5th grade, 6th grade, and year 1. I did this so they could make up for any previously missed learning. I learned that the topics they all cover are the same each day. For example, they all start with reading, altho they read different stories/books, then do math, which they do at their own individual levels mostly from Khan Academy but not exclusively, then some thinking or logic and writing. In the year work, they start with a bible story, they all read the same book or chapter but the older ones read longer sections and have more in-depth questions. Then they do history, again, all the same topic (for example, ancient Rome) just with different resources and quizzes, etc. They finish the day with science or PE, again, the same for all elementary levels just with more details for the older grades. It makes it so easy for me to discuss topics with them or for them to discuss things amongst themselves.
I will miss using Easy Peasy once we launch full-time, which is now delayed because the tow dolly just arrived and is still sitting in the crate outside ... in the freezing cold, in the newly fallen snow, behind the not-quite-completely rebuilt RV. ugh. Looking forward to launching within the next week, though. We MUST if we are to make Florida before homeschool day at Legoland, FL and music camp at Spirit of Suwanee!

Often, we do our learning elsewhere, even at the sticks and bricks house:


building Home Depot craft

taking computer apart


Spirit of Suwanee Music Camp

exploring nature center ... or, how to put your shirt on correctly!

This is how it looks in the house:
Bigs HSing in the dining room
Littles HSing in the living room
PE - dancing
PE - crab walk

counting by 10s song on youtube

Sunday, January 19, 2014

Our First Trip Down the East Coast

Our first major road trip was from NJ to TX with a van and a tent. We made a big loop around much of the US and LOVED it! We knew we needed an RV.
We attended our first RV rally in Florida 2 years ago. We had intended on launching full-time then but the RV broke down just a few days before launch and couldn't be fixed in time. So, my (then) 6 kids and I took the van and a tent, determined to go anyway. We lived in that van for a month before almost killing each other. This was back in the 'good ol' days' when my raddish garden was blooming like mad. We were exhausted but had some fun times, between tantrums and meltdowns.



We roadschooled the entire trip. We stopped at every state welcome center to learn something new. One of our favorite stops is South of the Border, but that's usually just to get a snack! One of my favorite cities to visit is Baltimore, MD. After the rally, we visited the Everglades. We took some ranger-led tours, completed junior ranger activities, found some free camping sites (for future reference when we could be safe inside the RV) and met a family there with a teenaged girl who was very excited to meet my 3 teenaged boys. Camping in the Everglades is all pretty primitive and there's no running water anywhere. Bring your own water. We opted to pay the $20 for the state campground along alligator alley. Still no running water but we felt pretty safe sleeping in a tent there. We also attended homeschool day at Leggoland, an activity we look forward to each year.



We did some learning on the Florida Keys. We spent a night sleeping behind the Walmart in Florida City then camped 2 nights at Bahia Honda, a lovely campground with junior ranger activity booklets and a visitor center. We explored the beach, bought snorkles so the boys could check out the coral reefs visible along the shores, and took a glass bottom boat tour at Pennekamp. It wasn't as pricy as I expected and the education was well worth the price. We also visited a turtle hospital on the Keys. We had to pay for the tour but I found a coupon in a visitors guide ... an education also well worth the price. We all agreed to try a food we've never had before at a White Harbor Seafood Buffet. Yumm. We went all the way to the tip of Key West, a place I wouldn't want my children to enjoy the night life in, although we didn't get to visit Dry Tortugas National Park. You need to plan ahead a little to catch a boat out there. We did read about it, though. Maybe next time ...
We also visited a few friends while in Florida before we started heading north again. We visited several churches and were involved with a youth group we enjoyed very much. We found shark teeth on the Gulf coast and visited Daytona Beach.




We decided to do another adoption, or two, so we have been bound to the sticks and bricks for 2 years, taking short RV trips for up to a month or two at a time and looking forward to our launch date.

Wednesday, January 8, 2014

Preparing for Launch

The nervousness is kicking in full gear, with a twinge of excitement and, occasionally, a little sadness about what we will miss. Will I have everything I need? Will I forget something important? Do I have a plan A, B, or plan C, if the RV breaks down? Will I be able to tow my van on the new dolly or will I scrape it up against a rail or perhaps lose it off a cliff? Hey, it can happen like this.
We have been traveling PT in our RV for 2 years now, looking forward to the opportunity to launch FT. We *think* this is it. We waited this long because God called me to do an, a few, OK, several adoptions, which required being in a sticks and bricks house. I've participated in an adoption every year for the past 5 years, a process that takes approximately a year or more. First, I adopted 3 boys, then a brother/sister set, then a teen boy, then I attempted to add another boy that hasn't quite panned out yet, then another brother/sister set. At this point, we have no adoption in the works so, when we decided to join the the FTF rally annd homeschool day at Leggoland again in FL, we realized we had no reason we *had* to be at the house.
For a year, I got the house ready to sell. We conveniently had a pipe break in the upstairs bathroom resulting in damage. When the homeowner's insurance payment wasn't even enough to fix the bathroom, I took the payment and did all work myself: gutting both bathrooms, the kitchen and the laundry room and rebuilding it myself. Well, that didn't help the house sell. Actually, we got almost no traffic what-so-ever. We continued to purge anyway. I sold what I could on craigslist, gave away what friends could use, freecycled a bunch, and continued to donate the rest to VVA or Purple Heart, who will conveniently come pick up what we leave on our porch. Today's pile is small in comparison to the 8767657988979089088 other piles we've left out there this past year or two.


Aside from purging the house, I had already started homeschooling 2 years ago, so we've had plenty of time tweaking that routine for ourselves. We started off unschooling, then I toyed with many schedules and curriculums (mostly free and online) until I found a system that works for us, both while on the road and off. I have been scanning all of our important documents onto a flashdrive with Internet back-up. I gutted the RV completely inside and am rebuilding it to accommodate all 9 of us. I reused everything I took out of the RV, rearranging and rebuilding it. I also reused furniture from the house that didn't sell and tweaked it to fit into the RV, so I spent very little money for the actual rebuild materials. We hope to launch in about a week and are so excited.
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Wednesday, January 1, 2014

It's a New Year

I am so blessed and thankful for what God has done in our lives in 2013 and am happily anticipating what He has in store for us this coming year. I am excited about the gifts and blessings and excited about the trials, struggles, and new learning He will provide. I am so thankful He loves us the way He does.

2+ years of earnestly seeking God has yielded this family:
4+ months without the use of police, crisis workers, hospitals, or psychiatrists
4+ months without signs of PTSD, depression, or behavior disorders of any kind
2+ months with most of us functioning well without any medications of any kind

What the Bible has to say about seeking God:
But if from there you seek the Lord your God, you will find him if you seek him with all your heart and with all your soul. Deut. 4:29

I love those who love me, and those who seek me find me. Prov. 8:17

Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives, and the one who seeks finds, and to the one who knocks it will be opened. Matt. 7:7-8

The Lord is good to those who wait for him, to the soul who seeks him. Lam. 3:25

You will seek me and find me, when you seek me with all your heart. Jer. 29:13

The young lions suffer want and hunger; but those who seek the Lord lack no good thing. Psalm 34:10

Seek the Lord and his strength; seek his presence continually! 1 Chron. 16:11



But may all who seek you rejoice and be glad in you; may those who love your salvation say continually, “Great is the Lord!” Psalm 40:16

Have a Blessed 2014